My dog Cole nearly broke my finger again freaking out after a squirrel he espied on our walk this morning.
We were walking along and he saw a squirrel dash up a tree. Although I had my two dogs on leashes, my dog Cole went crazy when he saw the squirrel.
He yanked so hard he made me let go of the leash. Cole can run really fast, but the squirrel was already safe on a high branch by the time Cole reached the tree.
My other dog, an old Pomeranian named Pixie is visually-impaired. She takes a more circumspect view of life. Squirrels are invisible to her.
I call my two dogs The Why and Whatever.
Pixie is The Why. When I call her to come to me she will not come unless there’s a reason. Her belly and her taste buds are her main motivator. However she does get excited when it’s time for her walk. She will come to me to put her leash on her to go out. She’s a dog who lives by way of a purpose and a plan. She is efficient and doesn’t do anything without good cause.
My Poodle named Cole is Whatever. He generally comes to me when I call him.
He does not need a reason to obey me
He will cuddle up to me and sit by me for hours on end, and enjoys hanging around for whatever.
Cole does not have to have a reason for anything.
Like Pixie he certainly can be bribed, but he does not need a bribe to listen to me.
As for me, I tend to be a daydreamer, and reactive. I am like my dog Cole.
I like to do things for whatever the reason. I don’t always have to have a reason for everything I do.
Nevertheless, sometimes it’s good to be like Pixie. It’s good to be motivated by purpose. Why do something if you get nothing in return?
Then again, if you buy a bunch of flowers and give them to a friend for whatever, for no reason, there doesn’t always have to be a reason, if for nothing more than it makes others happy.
It’s good to remember, just because, is okay.